英语翻译Dear John,I have seen some of the articles you shared on

英语翻译
Dear John,
I have seen some of the articles you shared on the net in these several days.I
did not expect that things have bothered you so much.My original idea was
that chivalrous males could comprehend and tolerate more.However,my
expectation has been proved totally wrong.Therefore,I am determined to
make things clear to you.
I have had the honour of receiving what you have done to me,for which I beg
to return my sincere acknowledgements.I am much concerned to find there
was anything in my behaviour in recent months that did not meet your
approbation; and I am quite apologetic to discover I could be so unfortunate
as to offend you,I entreat your forgiveness.My gratitude for your devotion is
very sincere; but if I have been so unfortunate as to give rise to a belief of more
than I felt,or meant to express,I shall reproach myself for not having been
more guarded in my professions of that gratitude.
As you know my time is now fully occupied.And no matter I will study
overseas or work in Shanghai,I will not be less busy.This is not what you like.
I am sorry for not being with you as you like,but I can not live so relaxingly
and easily like you.I have to endeavor for myself,my mother,my father,and
of course my future family.Thus,it is very clear that we are not the right
people for each other at this time in our lives; we are too different in both our
personality,habits and our desired lifestyles.
You are a very talented and kind person.With more efforts,you will definitely
achieve great success.So now it is time for you to concentrate more on your
career,not these trivial things.I know and believe that there is someone who
will support you in your growth while doing exactly the way you are.

（自己翻的,还真是费了点时间,希望可以帮到你吧.）
亲爱的约翰：
我看到了你最近这些天在网上分享的文章,没想到这件事会给你带来如此多的困扰.我最初以为一个勇敢坚强的男人可以有更多的理解和包容,然而事实证明我的预期是完全错误的.因此,我决定把这件事向你澄清一下.
我已经深感荣幸的接受了你为我所做的,并为此请求把我最真挚的谢意送给你.我非常关切的想要找出在最近几个月里,我的行为举止有没有任何你不能认同的地方,如不幸有冒犯之处我深感歉意并请求你的原谅.对于你的爱和投入,我的感激之情是非常诚恳真挚的,但是不幸的,如果我让一个比我感受到的其他的念头产生,或是想要表达出来,我会为在我带有如此感激之情的声明中没有更加防备而责备我自己.
如你所知,现在我的时间是完全被占用的,而无论是我将要到海外学习还是在上海工作,这种忙碌的状态都不会减弱,这是你所不希望的.我很抱歉没有如你所愿的跟你在一起,但是我无法生活的像你一样如此放松和简单,我必须尽全力拼搏,为我自己、我的父母,当然还有我未来的家庭.因此,此时此刻显而易见的是,在我们的生命里,我们并不是彼此适合的,我们两个的个性、习惯和我们想要的生活方式有太多的不同.
你是一个很有才华的、善良的人,随着不断地努力,你一定会取得巨大的成功.所以现在是时候应该把精力集中在事业上了,而不是这些琐碎的事情.我知道并且相信会有那样一个人,在你用自己特有的方式成长过程中支持你.