新生入学要不要家长陪同?就自己的观点写一篇英语作文

新生入学要不要家长陪同?就自己的观点写一篇英语作文

每年新生入学是学校最热闹的时候,这一点,电子科技大学的王老师最有发言权,“学校里到处是亲友团,两个陪一个或者是三个陪一个.”担任多年学生工作的她经常看到新生报到注册交费填表都是父母完成,整理宿舍铺床等也都由父母一手包揽.寝室里家长爬上爬下、忙里忙外,孩子则在一旁吃零食打电话.好像是父母来上大学.
　　“从情感方面看家长的心情可以理解,如今几乎每个孩子都是独生子女,被全家视若珍宝.上大学要离开家,一个人生活,家长一路送去学校是可以理解的.问题是有的家长管得太多,想得太多了.”王老师表示,许多家长“包办”孩子的一切,事无巨细,不顾孩子已经是18岁的成年人,长此以往,对锻炼孩子的生活能力没有一点好处.相反,有了家长等于有了靠山,孩子自然不愿意多动手多吃苦,还觉得父母的行为是应该的,不帮孩子的父母反而不像话.
　　“其实,每年新生入学,学校都会做好各种准备,在各大车站设立新生接待点,并让师兄师姐们从各方面来指点帮助,家长大可放心让孩子一个人来上学,报到、注册、住宿自己都能办好.”
专家表示,在新生入学家长陪同的背后有一种心态大家比较忽略,就是父母本身有送孩子的意愿,父母是在满足自己的心理.省社会科学院的学者胡光伟表示,朝夕相处,不仅孩子对父母产生依赖,父母对孩子更产生依赖,而且这种依赖让父母在离开孩子后,无法“独立”.送孩子一程,听起来是满足孩子,其实是家长求得心理平衡的一种方式.
New students each year is the most popular schools,this,of the University of Electronic Science and Technology Wang teachers are most qualified to speak,"the school is full of relatives and friends groups,with a two or three with one." As the work of her students for many years Registration is required to report back regularly to see new parents are paid to fill in a form to complete,finishing bed hostel also won single-handedly by the parents.Parents bedroom,climb up and down,busy,busy,the children eat snacks in a phone call to one side.Parents like to go to college.
"From the emotional side can understand the feelings of parents,children are now in almost every child,family treasures Shiruo.To leave home to go to college,a person of life,parents sent to school all the way is understandable.The question is Guandetaiduo some parents,like too much."Wang said many parents" arranged "for all children,micro,regardless of the child is already a 18-year-old adults,and if things continue this way,the exercise capacity of children's lives No good.On the other hand,has been backing the same parents,children naturally do not want to do more and more hardship,and also feel that parents should act,not to help the parents instead of outrageous.
"In fact,every year new students,the school will be ready to take all the major stations set up to receive new students,and to allow senior Shijie Men from various sources to help teach,parents can rest assured that their children a person to go to school,the report registered ,Accommodation can be their own good."
Experts said that parents of new students behind compared to a state of mind we lose sight of is that parents send their children to have the wishes of the parents in to meet their own psychological.Provincial Academy of Social Sciences scholar,said Hu Wei,day and night to get along,not only have a dependent child of parents,parents have to rely more on children,and this dependence so that parents leaving their children,can not be "independent." Send their children to one-way,the sound is to meet the children,parents are seeking a way of psychological balance.